Relaxation


People desperately pursue relaxation and the release from stress: illicit drugs, alcohol, caffeine, sex, television. There are a vast number of escapes, all predicated on the belief that life is too hard and that it demands relief. We think of relaxation as a way out, a retreat from the pain and pressures of our lives.
True relaxation embraces life, does not declare "time out" from it.


(Wolfe Lowenthal)

Relaxation

Relaxation is a condition of ease that arises from feeling comfortable.

You may do many things in order to relax:

  1. Sit

  2. Walk

  3. Read a book

  4. Talk with friends

  5. Spend time with your family

  6. Gardening

  7. Cooking

  8. Eat a nice meal

  9. Watch TV

  10. Socialise

What is relaxing for one person may not be relaxing for another.
It is important to discover ways in which to relax.

You may even choose to do absolutely nothing...



Rest & relaxation


Rest is not the same as relaxation.

Whilst relaxation can take many forms, rest is more straightforward.
When you stop doing altogether, you rest.
An example of rest is sleep.


Mind & body

Relaxing both mind and body will improve your health and make you feel better.
Your quality of life will change.
It can be hard for busy people to relax, so you must be patient.

The commitment you make towards being relaxed will prove itself worthwhile when you start to feel fresh and energised.

Kung fu aims to make you feel rested, relaxed and energised.

Nervous system

Relaxing will have an effect upon your nervous system.
The nervous system is spread throughout your entire body and affects the internal balance.
Calming the nervous system changes how you move - you will feel less jerky and more fluid.
There are two ways in which we can work on the nervous system:

  1. Calming the mind

  2. Slowing the body

The body can be slowed by practicing kung fu every day and the mind can be calmed by reading books that encourage healthy thoughts, by watching nature and by meditating.


Positive attitude

It is easy to become annoyed and frustrated in a culture that has embraced competition and selfishness as a way of life.

In kung fu, we are encouraged to remove the difference between thinking and doing.
We try to figure out the nature of obstacles and work with them rather than against them.
This creates a constructive attitude.
Creativity, and freedom from conditioned thought is crucial in kung fu.


Awareness

Meditation is the process of growing awareness.

You must root your attention in the 'here and now' unless deliberately allowing yourself to dream.
As you sit right now, what is your body doing? How is it is positioned? Are you relaxed or tense?
What are your thoughts? Do you feel at ease?

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